Maybe she’ll be frightened, or she might use pepper spray.
Maybe she’ll put her guard up and start being really sarcastic. Going up to a girl in real life is a complete nightmare.
” Guys and girls naturally answer that oppositely, and that skews the test.
Then there is the idea that her boss might see, or her friends, or her neighbors, or the guy at the gas station.
The whole world sees her as desperate enough to resort to online dating.
Now, I know that it seems cruel to favor girls without kids, but – I’ve dated single mothers before. Also, when a woman has a kid, it’s harder to find any time to learn who the woman is. I played with him, disciplined him, tucked him in at night, and read him stories – the whole thing. So when we finally hit a small bump in the road, the relationship crumbled. And with Christmas around the corner, I’m simply not ready to be a father figure AND Santa Claus.
The girls online who don’t have kids usually have other baggage.
But the test sees that you answered opposite, and lowers your match score!
The same thing happened with, “Would you date someone with hair on their chest?
After all, pretty girls are hit on all the time in real life. The only reason is because she has kids, or perhaps because she’s unattractive, or maybe she has some personal baggage.
I’d say about 90% of the women on the dating websites I visit have kids. But dealing with the ex-husband who might be really possessive can be scary. I spent more time with the kid than I ever did with her. I didn’t have the time to learn about her, because I was too busy taking care of the kid. But when 90% of the girls online have kids, you’re basically relegating yourself to ONLY girls with kids.
Even worse, I’ve had girls who tell me that my problem is, I’m not creepy enough. Then, she might have a six hundred pound gorilla boyfriend around the corner.
Or she could be underage, and her parents are around the corner.
In my five years of being on dating websites, I’ve only gotten three messages that were initiated by women. When a girl joins a dating website, it’s a HUGE risk.